Are one night stands passe?

The number of adult dating sites has skyrocketed. Whether you are looking for the love of your life or no strings dating, there is a site for you. Once upon a time, one night stands were the “in thing” but is naughty dating still as popular as it ever was?

As technology takes us forward in all areas of our lives, it’s actually harder to meet people in real life. Maybe it’s because we are always stuck with our head in our phones? Maybe it’s because internet dating has allowed us to be more picky. We now have hundreds and thousands of possible matches at our finger tips and only a swipe away. If one doesn’t look great, we just swipe on to the next. What about if we aren’t looking for a relationship though? Are people still looking for one night stands and hook ups? Perhaps they might be less common than they were but yes, they are still popular and still taking place all over the country. From Cambridgeshire sex to Kent sex, there are sites to help you find what you are looking for.

Whilst taking up new activities such as a group or a class or even asking a friend for a set up or blind date can be a great way to meet someone special for that long term relationship, it’s not really the done thing in most social circles to ask friends to set them up for casual sex. That’s why sometimes, we have to look in different places and online definitely seems the way to go for this kind of dating.

There are key things to remember though – like with any kind of dating, there are always going to be risks. Particularly if you are a woman make sure someone knows where you are going, and ideally meet in a public place in the first instance. Arrange to check in with a friend by a set time as a “just in case”. If everything goes according to plan, just remember that ultimately the person you are meeting is meeting you for sex, and you should take everything they say with a pinch of salt. There is NO excuse not to take precautions – make sure you have condoms with you – and this applies to guys and girls. If a guy is telling you that he doesn’t like them or has allergies – walk away (unless he has latex free ones). Your health and future is more important than a one night hookup. Just remember to put your health and safety first.

Another thing to remember is that some people might be disapproving of your choices, but at the end of the day it is your life. Don’t let other people’s opinions bring you down or make you feel judged. There are probably things about their lives that you don’t like or perhaps you wouldn’t want to live your life like them. There’s a reason that we are all different after all!

 

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